Contemporary society deludes itself that results can be obtained without effort. And it’s not just about physical exhaustion, which is considered beneficial, of course, or mental, but also about commitment to relationships: at work, it is not enough to do one’s job. There are relational skills that do the difference: knowing how to create a background and exploit it.
The message on the delicate theme of children in relation to happiness is to be read in some negative way, like on a slide. Nowadays there is still a prejudice that persists that children must be cared for and managed by women. We are still far from equality in this respect. But the magic word here is sharing. This is the magical receipt for getting happiness with becoming a parent. Without forgetting that not all couples are made thanks to a child and that having one is undoubtedly very tiring. These are two awarenesses that need to mature because in fact there are very successful and happy couples who have had no children also.
It’s about loving each other and not taking the steps we reach for granted. We all should talk to ourselves the way we would to our dearest friend who is trying his hardest and train our minds and bodies to feel and remember the positive, the beautiful, the surprising, and the magic in life.